When does anger go away? When one’s needs are met.
Trouble is; one often spends one’s life expecting someone else to meet one’s need. In actual fact; I am the only one who can meet my needs. So it follows that my anger goes away when I learn to meet my own needs; take responsibility for my own happiness; take care of myself well rather than second guessing the needs of others and then waiting for someone else to notice and meet my needs, reinforce or reassure. I speak of adults, of course. Children have age appropriate needs. I am no longer a child. I am an adult. How about you?
ur rite. most people do lots of things that arnt in their best interest. and they keep doing them. strange isnt it. habits r hard 2 break. second guess somebodys needs – its no good. u try 2 hard. dont get it rite. they think u didnt even try. y dont we stop? r we afraid of what others think? r u a giver? i think i give 2 much. maybe i just give what i think they need. maybe what i think is the problem. i worry 2 much. ur rite. i am responsible for my own happiness. i need 2 not worry so much. what will mean more when im old? my worry or my happiness?